How Not to F*ck Up Your MarriageLessons from a divorce lawyer in how to stay in love How Not to F*ck Up Your Marriage is your guide to avoiding critical mistakes in relationships, crafted by James J. Sexton, who has spent over two decades in the trenches of high stakes divorce. With a career full of witnessing good people tearing each other apart over poor communication, broken trust, and solvable issues, Sexton shares the lessons he wishes every couple knew before it was too late.